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The Unwritten Rules

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Kalian tahu gak sih kalau ada satu peraturan gak tertulis yang harus dan wajib kalian lakuin kalau mau pertemanan kalian langgeng? Bukan cuma hubungan pacaran aja yang harus langgeng, tapi pertemanan kalian juga harus langgeng tentunya.  Semakin kita dewasa, lingkungan pertemanan kita akan semakin mengecil dan terbatas. Karena kita akan mengandalkan dan saling menaruh harapan kepada pasangan kita. Jadi kalian harus tahu aturan gak tertulis dalam etika pertemanan adalah jangan pacaran atau punya relationship dengan mantan teman kita. Kalau kalian gak mau kehilangan teman yang tulus di dunia yang sekarang ini susah cari orang yang tulus, maka kalian harus pahami aturan itu. Mau itu teman dekat atau teman jauh atau apapun tingkat kedekatan kalian, kita harus ikutin aturan itu.  Sekarang kita coba pikir secara logika, teman kita waktu pacaran sama pasangannya curhatnya kemana kalau gak ke kita? Karena kita sebagai teman juga menjadi pendengar yang baik untuk teman kita. Kadang tem...
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Things I Wish My Father Knew

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Tidak semua kisah keluarga berakhir dengan pelukan. Ada yang berakhir dengan diam dan dengan air mata yang tak sempat jatuh.  Ayah adalah cinta pertama bagi anak perempuannya. Namun kalau di satu waktu yang sama Ayah menjadi sumber luka terbesar bagi anak perempuannya bagaimana? Apakah Ayah sebelumnya menyadari atau bahkan memikirkan itu? Terkadang ada sosok Ayah yang tidak sadar kalau perbuatannya menyakiti anak perempuannya. Contoh kecilnya adalah, dengan Ayah menyakiti Ibu itu sudah menjadi luka kecil bahkan bisa menjadi luka besar yang meninggalkan bekas dan trauma tersendiri diantara keluarga kecil itu.  Semua orang tahu jika Ayah adalah kepala keluarga dan panutan dalam keluarga kecil itu. Lantas, apakah masih pantas disebut panutan yang selalu dibanggakan dalam keluarga jika karena suatu hal Ayah harus tega menggores luka di hati Ibu? Sampai Ayah juga tak sadar kalau hati putri kecilnya juga ikut tergores. Siapa juga yang tak sakit kalau melihat Ibunya hanya diam, tidak...
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The Change After Parental Divorce That Will be Experienced by Children

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     Divorce parents always have a change. These change will be experienced by the child and will be give a negative influence on the child's future. Such as change in parenting style, change in the social environment, and change in the character of children after divorce.       The first is a change in parenting style. Divorce change the function of the family component, which is having only a mother or a father who lives with the child, commonly called a single parent. Authoritarian parenting is typically used by single parents. They will demand independent behaviour from the child. Because shared parenting is no longer able to assist the development of children for both parents.      The second is change in the social environment. Returning to the first change, children are required to choose to live with their mother or father after a divorce. Of course, this will change the social environment and require children to adaptation with ...
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Bromo: a Heaven for Sunrise Enthusiasts

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       If you want to see the sunrise in East Java, then Mount Bromo would be the best choice. The name Bromo comes from the Tengger language, namely "Brama" is one of the active volcanoes in East Java. Mount Bromo with an altitude of 2,614 meters above sea level is also still in the same area with Mount Semeru which is the highest active volcano on the island of Java island. Surrounded by 4 regencies namely Malang regency, Pasuruan regency, Lumajang regency, and Pasuruan regency. Pasuruan, Lumajang, and Probolinggo districts make Mount Bromo a tourist spot with many entrances from a tourist spot that has many entrances from each district.      The main purpose of tourists coming to Mount Bromo is to see the sunrise. Based on my experience to Mount Bromo, being able to see the sunrise on Mount Bromo will be a core memory that will not be forgotten. The Mount Bromo area not only presents a mountain then if you want to see the sunrise you have to climb ...
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The 5 Recommendation of Coffee Shop; a Heaven for Coffee Lovers in Jombang

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From its inviting atmosphere to its commitment to the community, find your favorite coffee shop in Jombang.  Jombang is a small city in East Java that only takes about 2 hours to reach from Surabaya using the toll road. Although it is not a big city like Surabaya, Jombang is already quite complete, it can be seen in terms of culinary not inferior to the surrounding cities such as Kediri or Mojokerto. If we discuss culinary, of course we will also discuss places that provide culinary whether it is food or drinks that are favored by teenagers and adults, its a coffee shops.  Jombang may not be as modern as Surabaya with its many high-rise buildings, but some of the coffee shop in Jombang have caught up with coffee shop in Surabaya. Starting from the aesthetic, cozy place, many coffee variants, interesting food menu to try, and the best hospitality. Immediately below are coffee shops that you can try if you go out in Jombang.  1. Epidemi This first coffee shop is the most ...
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Exotic Photo : Bromo Edition

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  "Hopes Bromo hold you"
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What is Journalism? What did you know?

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Communication has many kinds of one of which is journalism. Journalism is a job of collecting news a day, then processing it and continuing to spread it through a certain media. The news that is spread must be relevant to what is happening in the community because this news will also be passed back to the public. Therefore, journalism is sometimes referred to as the press, the agency of mass communication for public service.  The media of journalism used to spread to the public are print media, television, radio and the Internet. In addition to the general function of journalism or the press is to disseminate news to the public, there are other functions, namely as a bridge between government and society. Press agencies are usually owned by people who have the wealth used for capital in this press industry. And usually those people have connections with those people in government. Then from that sometimes the press is also used to benefit certain individuals.  The press is a d...
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